In 2010 we got a diagnosis of ulcerative colitis for our son Isaac who was then 27 months old. For a year and a half we had been concerned about his persistent soft stools. Now that we're going down the road of living with IBD in our house, we want to be able to share our story, connect with similar families or individuals, and increase our awareness of the experience of others.

Some of our related interests are diet, kids and families with IBD, and discussing and sharing experiences.

Showing posts with label kids. Show all posts
Showing posts with label kids. Show all posts

Saturday, January 29, 2011

life after roids

Well, we're still in the "weaning off" stage of discontinuing six weeks of full dose prednisolone for Isaac's UC. For a two and a half year old, parents are bound to experience mood changes and independence--a particular vigor of life which often leaves parents wringing their hands for the "terrible twos" to pass. Well, especially the last few weeks left us wringing our hands with little Isaac.

The best anecdote was when Bonnie listed off half a dozen bizarre scenarios which included the slinging of toilet water, climbing on top of the TV, jumping off the couch, bouncing everywhere like a bunny, getting into this or getting into that. By and large, it wasn't anything different from any run of the mill experience with a two year old. Then, she clarified, however, at the end of the list, that it was merely the antics of one day. Many of you who have had kids can understand, I know. Just string all of those such days together with no naps for a few weeks and then I think you've got it.

Now that we've cut back on the steroids, he is napping again and he seems to have his regular self back, already. You know from my writing that I was a little anxious about the steroids, so I am relieved to see that he seems to be getting back to normal just fine. Although I do still await what the next few weeks will bring, and of course I hope he has no long-term ill effects.

Bowel-wise, we're all good. From our previous experience, it's going to be hard to convince me that the steroids are necessary. The science of it goes like this. At our last check up, when we were given the clear to reduce the steroid dosage, they took no blood work. The results they gave us that day were from the previous bloodwork three weeks ago. In that time, we saw improvement, but now we have no baseline for what "good" is really like. We will see the doctor in another month (six weeks from the last appointment) though so hopefully Isaac will still be doing just fine. I am pretty optimistic about the probiotics, which seem to be getting the best and surest results. Although, like I've written about before--it's so hard to tell what is doing what since we're doing a lot all at once.

This isn't the first time I've written this, but we suspect cow's milk triggers reactions--less than soy but greater than any other thing we've identified as far as we can tell.

I'm pretty comfortable with our diet and Isaac. We eat omnivorously on Wednesdays, vegetarian on days that begin with T, and vegan on the other days.

We have wanted to get more involved with families around Houston who cope with IBD, but so far we haven't done any of that. Perhaps as we get settled into our house and this side of town we'll be more on top of social networking. Our goal at this point is to keep on top of intake and output and register any fluctations, keep up on the anti-inflammatory medicine (hopefully get him switched to non-antibacterial pills instead of the antibacterial liquid form), stay faithful with the probiotics and see if we can't keep his condition stable for a long a time as possible. Being involved with other families with similar goals would probably help.

Thursday, October 28, 2010

UC

Diagnosis: ulcerative colitis. Did you know its incidence is around 3 in one million for his age group? So he is one of the about 15 kiddos here in Houston with similar conditions. Actually, they have a center here for families with kids with IBD. That's nice. I think we'll get involved.

The doctor is hopeful, and so are we, that he will respond positively to an anti-inflammatory medication he will presumably take for the rest of his life. We'll keep you posted.

Monday, October 4, 2010

Our Rundown

IBD in Our Home reports our experiences. Further, it aims to cultivate community support and to increase the collective experiential learning of anybody curious about IBD or who is affected by a member of the household with IBD.

Our two year old child Isaac is about to become diagnosed, we presume, with ulcerative colitis or another version of Inflammatory Bowel Disease. Not long ago (less than a month) it seemed like quite a shocker to relate a chronic disease to this quite perfect and bubbly lovable kiddo. But the diagnosis seemed probably based on what I could find on the internet, and since then, all tests seem to point in that direction. A colonoscopy is scheduled for next week, but it might not happens because of insurance reasons. And honestly, I'm not that eager for the scope, although I would like to get a treatment going to help heal his bowel inflammation (whatever the underlying disease or cause).

It is an incredible stressor on our spousal relationship. It seems like whatever I say seems to set off my wife, and vice verse, regarding diagnosis, prognosis, treatment, role of diet, etc. This is easily as much friction as we have experienced in our marriage. And I wouldn't even say we have vastly different viewpoints--it's just that we are intense about our feelings for diagnosis and treatment, and we're critical of each other's desires, since the amount of "control" we have ourselves is so very limited in the first place. For example, I would be happy to forego the colonoscopy, at least for now, and get going right away on a steroid treatment, where as Bonnie feels like the knowledge we can gain from the colonoscopy is essential to Isaac's eventual prognosis and treatment details. As it is, it seems like Fate might be taking care of it, since we learned today that our insurance isn't accepted by the doctor we've already seen who scheduled the scope.

Meanwhile, we are taking a treatment in our own hands, which we should have concerned ourselves with at a higher priority much earlier. Isaac never switched from baby breastfed poop (which is primarily runny and not at all formed, and is, actually, a lot like mustard, to remind or inform you), to solid poop. Our first child made this switch naturally when he changed to solids, and I understand that's normal. We always had our eyebrows raised at Isaac's stool, because of this, but our measures included a mediocre attempt at switching some foods to check for allergies. As long as we could tell, we could detect no reactions, but we were never inclined to investigate thoroughly or long-term.

We brought our concern to our doctor early on, but heard about toddler's diarrhea, and pretty much kept assuming, like our doctor, I guess, that it was a temporary situation which would correct itself. We cut down on fruit juice, which our doctor mentioned, and tried in our non-desperate way to get Isaac to eat yogurt.

Our own diet? Ironically, about a year ago, we went mostly vegan/vegetarian. We didn't cut meat from our boys' diets as much as we did from ours, but especially in retrospect it seems like Isaac ate more and more meat when we ate less and less. I'll expand more on Isaac's lifetime diet history another time.

Nowadays, Isaac is going mostly vegan too. And soft, easy to digest foods. This just really started the other day, though. The past two weeks he's been on meat and milk restrictions, but we're going to continue with an elimination diet and see if we can strictly understand some diet sensitivities.

The other big deal nowadays is colonics. It became clear lately that this sort of thing is going to help the little guy. So finally yesterday I went and got an enema kit and we're going down that path. I had a big mental block about this, but it was easy to overcome the more I read about it and the more I sensed the desperation of Isaac's bowels and the way the Health Care and Insurance system is bound to treat him. Our first experience with it was notedly positive, so we'll continue and I can report more about that later too.

Isaac is 28 months old, and since he was weaned at 12 months, he has had bowel issues for about 16 months at least. Overall, he is happy, bubbly, and other than his diaper contents, no one would expect a pathology. But in the past two months his diarrhea became bloody and, more recently, persistently worse. How bad? Sometimes it's just blood and mucus. Mostly it's runny, with blood. And we also still see soft stools (not at all formed, but not liquidy). His blood levels are acceptable, to assuage your immediate concern if you have it.

My hope is that with diet and colonics we can help his body get over the flare-up while we wait for the doctors to schedule appointments and make their prognoses. I will keep this blog up-to-date so we can share this experience and perhaps hear from others of you if you have something to share.